The Kids Are Alright

After reading the first half of danah boyd’s “It’s Complicated”, I decided that I have been introduced to a somewhat more objective view of how and why people, particularly teens, use the internet and social media. Whereas Carr takes the position that our use of the internet is inherently negative, boyd provides a much more balanced argument and puts our use of the web and social media into a social and cultural context. Moreover, I am enjoying boyd’s work better thus far because she neither celebrates nor bashes the internet. Instead, she simply analyzes why people hold the views that they do regarding this technology.

Although boyd discusses several different topics in each chapter in the first half of the book, her analysis of teens’ perceived addiction to the internet in chapter 3 really got me to think about my own use of social media. Specifically, she says that the media becomes carried away with the idea that our use of sites like Facebook and Twitter is unhealthy, and even leads to addiction. Furthermore, boyd claims that parents and the media worrying about teens’ use of different technologies is not new. “Parents in previous generations fretted about the hours teens whiled away hanging out or chatting on the phone” (boyd 79). I found this to argument to hold merit, just from conversations with my own parents. My mom reminisces about how she used to come home from school and talk with her friends for hours on the phone, gossiping and joking and such, much to my grandmother’s dismay. In fact, the song “Hanging on the Telephone” by Blondie is a good example of how teens used to constantly call their friends using the telephone. In the song, the protagonist keeps attempting to call the guy she likes, but he won’t answer because his mother is there. While we don’t know what the intention of the call is or why the guy’s mother is discouraging the call, the song represents teens’ longing to use the telephone (long before the invention of social media–the song came out in 1978) and parents’ worries about the use of the telephone, even back in the late 1970’s. In conclusion, while my parents have never discouraged me from using social media or the internet, the number of times I’ve been told to take a break from being on the computer or on my phone is more than I can count.

As I continued to navigate through boyd’s argument in this chapter, I was also struck by one of the reasons she provides for why teens use social media so often. Using her interviews with several teenagers, she claims that the use of social media helps them unwind after a long day. “Social media introduces new opportunities for housebound teens to socialize and people-watch, but it also provides an opportunity to relax” (boyd 91). I can personally relate to this quote, as many times, when I find that I have been cooped up all day doing work for school, I enjoy scrolling through various social media feeds before bed. Although staring at my phone or computer prior to sleeping is not necessarily good for my eyes, it certainly helps take my mind off the countless hours of work or studying I had been doing for class. I would say this use of social media is far from addiction. Perhaps I use social media as a remedy to the mundane activities of homework, but this is nowhere near what could be considered a problematic degree of usage. As the band The Who sang in 1965, “The Kids Are Alright” (Though I’m certain the song has a deeper meaning).

Author: Sam W

I am a Geography major and Writing minor at the University of Delaware. My primary interests are mapping, climatology, environmental and wildlife conservation, writing, reporting, and broadcasting. Using this blog, my goal is to write and publish insightful and thought provoking posts regarding digital rhetoric.

6 thoughts on “The Kids Are Alright”

  1. I am also enjoying boyd’s work better than Carr’s. Carr was very negative, which made his work hard to read. boyd keeps an open mind and balances the positive and negative aspects of technology. This makes her work more captivating to read since it opens us up to different perspectives. I think that you capture one of those different perspectives in your post. Most people don’t think about teens using social media as a form of relaxation, but many of them do. I also like to aimlessly scroll through my social media after a long day of school work. It gives my brain a chance to wind down before ending my day.


  2. What I found interesting from Boyd’s examples of teens use of social media was how it differed from my own. As someone who was 17 when this book was written I found myself reading certain examples and saying “that’s not how I or anyone I know use social media at all”. There’s not just a generational disconnect, there’s a shift in usage from person to person.


  3. Sam, This is a terrific post. I’m struck by your distinction between an addiction and a remedy. It’s like distinguishing between a drug as a poison and as a cure. And you make effective use of Blondie and The Who as a kind of acoustic background to your thinking. I like! ~Joe


  4. Its funny to me how reading about other peoples lives or news on social media unwinds us, but it’s very true, and it applies to me in my life as well. Social media has many benefits to us that are just so ingrained in our daily lives that we don’t even realize it now.


  5. Thank you everybody for your comments and feedback. I’m also relieved to see that it’s not only me who is enjoying boyd’s work more than Carr’s. Again, while Carr made some interesting and enlightening arguments, I feel as though he was quick to jump to the conclusion that the internet is negatively affecting us. I like boyd’s arguments because she really takes an objective standpoint on these issues and looks at them from a variety of different angles.


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