Go On… Without….. Me

My cousin is a 25 year old studying physics in California. Her way of life is extraordinary in that she seems to be very contrarian to popular ways of living. She goes on nature expeditions with her fiancé where they immerse themselves in nature over a few weeks. She values the lives of animals and also her own health: therefore she chose to become a vegan. Her commitment to the diet was a little dangerous. She cracked a rib from the weight loss. But she is undeniably passionate about her lifestyle choices and she is one of the sanest, happiest persons I know. I am always looking forward to her next shocking lifestyle change that has our family asking if she’s quite right in the head.

Her most recent change was no less startling. She has gotten rid of her iPhone in favor of a small, ancient, dinosaur-looking, fossilized object that people of ancient times I believe called a cell phone. And that’s all it is. It can’t do anything but make calls. When the troglodytes come to destroy our technology I believe they will not be able to discern her phone from a rock. Anyway, the point is that she is a believer in REAL human contact and in making the most of her time. She tells me that her old phone was a distraction, unnecessary, and above all killing her humanity. Reading Boyd is killing my humanity. When I read Boyd I see a TON of issues and few solutions. Kids struggling with identity, with self-expression, with privacy. I think the solution here isn’t hard to see. Just get rid of it! Put it down! Or at the least refine how you use it! Is it really that complicated?

Sure, some people might need it for work or for networking for their business profile, I gotcha. But when Boyd talks about how teens are constantly updating their statuses  or  getting into privacy issues (95) I can’t help but feel like social media users have fabricated some nifty problems for themselves out of thin air.

So anyway I’ve realized I’m not so different from my cousin. I used to use Facebook as a means of chatting or posting updates waaaaaaay back in 7th grade. I don’t think I’ve posted a Facebook status in about 5 or 6 years. And to be honest, I would say it feels great not to, and I’m sure it does, but I’ve forgotten what it feels like to post. My profile picture has never changed: I’ve had the same once since middle school started. Boyd has helped me as has my cousin: when life’s getting a bit to complex, or a little sad: go to the roots of humanity! Unplug! Keep it simple silly! If I haven’t been convincing enough: Louis C.K. to take it home.


Author: Graham C

Student at the University of Delaware writing to be the best I can be!

4 thoughts on “Go On… Without….. Me”

  1. Graham,

    I love this post! Eloquent, angry, a little Lewis-Black like. But you’re cheating with the Louis C-K clip. You’ve used that before. It’s great. I remember it.

    So if you’re a Luddite (and I totally understand why somebody would be), what drew you to this course? (You don’t need to answer in public.)



  2. I like the idea of your piece but I feel like it’s easier said than done. Maybe that lifestyle works for some people, but the truth is that the majority of the population is now reliant on social media. For most people unplugging isn’t an option for many reasons but I do agree that we may need to reassess how we use social media and how often we use it.


  3. I really love the humor in this post and the way you brought it together at the end with the last sentence. The example you used was personal and I have seen similar lifestyles. It’s crazy how outlandish of an idea that would be to us, to ditch smart phones and just live but every once in awhile it’s necessary to disconnect for at least a little while.


  4. Boyd makes it seem like there is only one way of life. One with social media. I think there is always a choice! I try to be selective with tech/media usage. I’ll use texting/reddit, but little to no social media. I’m leaning towards even less use if I can: I lost my phone for a week and it was actually pretty great…


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